From Dear John to Dear John:

How to know when you are getting a Dear John letter?

One of the first signs is that he or she is in a hurry to met you. Especially when you are listed on one of the online dating site. I don't want to waste my time, so I need you to committe to me and only me.

Second, when answering questions make sure he or she is returning an answer that you believe was a well rounded answer. Not just an o.k. are I tell you later about that question. But A solid honest answer.

If you listen to the person talking and words like I believe you are a nice person comes up two or three time in your conservation, You are gettting dump within the next 24 -48 hours. To smooth it over he or she says I still want to be your friend.

Women and men are true liar when it come down to weight . Listen to the conservation closely for these words. I am looking for pictures of when I was about your size. It is their way of calling you FAT without breaking your heart.

The biggest Dear John that you will every get will slap you in the face. Instead of you dropping the bomb of her she drop it on you. Then you say all kinds of sweet words to win her back. Then you get slapped again. Just remember that a woman knows that the men will approach her to see if she can control and intimidate you. She'll ignore you when she finds out that she can Her signature is all over this Dear John letter that is truly meant for you.

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